“elaine stritch: shoot me”

Elaine Stritch sitting

The other day, I wrote about the inspiring young girls in the must-see documentary, Girl Rising.

Today, I watched a documentary about another inspiring female that I have to share with you. At 89, sheā€™s just a little older than those girls.

Elaine Stritch: Shoot Me follows the legendary Broadway star as she prepares for what she knows will be the final act in her famous career. With her gigantic round glasses, she is quite a character ā€“ ā€œcomplicated and eccentricā€ is how Hal Prince describes her ā€“ and itā€™s fascinating to watch her fight her way through tough songs and lyrics while the effects of aging threaten to steal the spotlight.

Never one to back down, Stritch is determined to get out there and make the audience love her. And despite being crotchety, stubborn and very very direct, somehow she always does.

Elaine Stritch Shoot MeStritch is so real and charismatic, itā€™s no wonder sheā€™s won over some of the biggest names in show business. Thereā€™s a funny but poignant moment when the late James Gandolfini (to whom the film is dedicated) says, ā€œIf we had met when we were 35, we would have had a torrid love affair that would have ended badly.ā€

Tina Fey calls Stritch a ā€œgreat role modelā€ because sheā€™s ā€œconfident, brassy and she doesnā€™t wear pants.ā€ Seriously! Stritch looks amazing in her signature white oversized button-down shirts over black stockings. To have legs like that at any age is a gift; to have them in your eighties, well, wow.

Although Stritch struggles with diabetes, alcoholism and those pesky effects of aging, she doesnā€™t shy away from talking about any of it. ā€œEverybodyā€™s got a sack of rocks,ā€ she shrugs, quoting her late husband.

Seeing the personal photos and clips from Stritchā€™s prolific career is like taking an insiderā€™s tour of old Hollywood and the theater world. Stritch was nominated for five Ton Awards and won three; sheā€™s been nominated for eight Emmys, winning three; and sheā€™s starred with leading men like Rock Hudson, who she also dated along with Ben Gazzara and a young John F. Kennedy.

Itā€™s empowering to hear Stritch admit, ā€œI like the courage of age. You get away with murder.ā€

Sheā€™ll never be one of the ladies who lunch ā€“ the ones she made famous in Stephen Sondheimā€™s Company. You know sheā€™ll be taking curtain calls until that final curtain comes down.

So hereā€™s to Elaine Stritch. She definitely knows how to live.

25 thoughts on ““elaine stritch: shoot me”

  1. I love her so much. SO much. I saw her a few years ago on Broadway in “A Little Night Music” with Bernadette Peters, and she’s on my iPod from my CD “The Ladies of Broadway” singing (of course) “The Ladies Who Lunch”. I know it by heart, but every time I heard it she always makes me smile.

    I can’t wait to see this documentary!

    P.S. I remember her co-starring in an episode of “Cosby” as a very funny teacher of one of the kids.

    I wish I had her energy, and I’d take her legs even at 89!

    Great post.

  2. I can’t wait to see this. I have always admired her, ever since I saw her in Company. “Here’s to the Ladies Who Lunch” is such a classic. She is one of the last grande dames and it’s sad that she still isn’t kicking those legs on Broadway.

  3. Ooh my goodness! I totally love her. It is not easy getting old and she is doing it wonderfully! Thanks for sharing.

  4. She sounds like an amazing character for the current generation to really look up to. We need more women out there who show determination and follow through.

  5. Have always been a big fan of Elaine Stritch, I love her wickedly sharp humor. And Cathy – I saw her in A Little Night Music w/Bernadette Peters, too! And finally, LOVELOVELOVED her role on 30 Rock.

  6. Can’t wait to see this film. I saw her in A Little Night Music. She forgot a lot of her lines. You could hear some dude shout them to her from offstage. But she never broke character and she kept on going.

  7. Write ON Lois! Great write up on an incredible woman.

    I loved the film so much, I could have gone back again and again – it was one week only in Dayton, Ohio. Friends with the manager of the movie theater The Neon, where it was shown, I requested the small poster he had on the doors – which was graciously given to me on my next attendance.
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    1. So great that you got the poster! She is definitely a force of nature. She sounds kind of like the way Lisa Scottoline described her mother at the Erma conference!

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